Boarbank Hall, Allithwaite, Grange-over-Sands, Cumbria, UK

 

 
 
 

 

 
Sr Mary Imelda Gorman (1937-2011) A Tribute

 


A Short Biography

Sr Imelda was born on 27th October 1937 in Ireland, and baptised Philomena.

She came to England  to join the Boarbank Community in 1955, originally intending to train for the missions. She received the habit on November 4 1955, and transferred from the Missionary Novitiate. Her first profession was on 3rd June 1958, and her final profession November 27th 1961. Between 1962 and 1965, she did her nursing training in Lancaster, including Midwifery. On April 9 1964 she was awarded a prize at the Royal Lancaster Infirmary.

Sr Imelda worked in Marymount all her religious life, doing nights on occasion until 2000. In recent years she sat with the dying, accompanied patients to hospital and visited patients and staff daily. She was also responsible for the upkeep and updating of the establishment, enhancing all aspects of the buildings for guests, patients and the community. She oversaw the building of the Oratory, which has won national architectural recognition, to mark the 1600th anniversary of the conversion of St Augustine in 1986. One of the most important improvements she masterminded was the reordering of the chapel in 1992-94. Her last large-scale project was the refurbishment of the rooms in Bethany, including the creation of a new bedroom and lounge, which was finished in time for Christmas 2010.

She spent the years 1971-1973 in Zambia, making use of  her midwifery training .

Sr Imelda spent much of her religious life in office, as Superior in 1981-87, 1990-1996, 1999-2006, and as Novice Mistress and Assistant in 1987-1990.

Although she bravely battled with cancer for many years, she was bedbound only during her final illness, for a mercifully short time. She died very peacefully, surrounded by the Community and close friends, on Easter Wednesday, 27th April 2011.


An Appreciation of Sr Imelda

The manner of Sister Imelda’s dying on the morning of April 27th was entirely appropriate. Quietly and with drawing the minimum of attention to herself she died as she had lived. By way of contrast, those present – Community and close friends – were in no doubt about the significance of her death. For many who, over the last half century and more,  have made their way to Boarbank, the House, its hospitality, its ethos and Sister Imelda have been all of a piece. That the Community have readily recognized this, is clear from their having repeatedly elected her to be their Superior.

For the Church and for Religious Life the second half of the last century was a time of change and upheaval. Following on from the Second Vatican Council every Religious Order and Congregation became involved in engaging afresh with their origins, their purpose and contribution to the contemporary needs of the Church and world. In the midst of varied opinions, and tensions between old and new, sound leadership was essential. Boarbank was fortunate to have such in Imelda.

First and foremost in her priorities was care and concern for the Community and its members. This required a well-focussed eye on the essentials of the Augustinian charism, with its insistence on communal and private prayer, care for each other  and service to others. It was from these major concerns that the rest of Imelda’s contribution flowed: care of the sick, hospitality, improvement of property. But undoubtedly her greatest contribution was not so much what she did but the manner in which it was done. It was this that endeared her to so many. Hers was an unobtrusive but highly effective presence. There was an unfailing attention to detail. Many found in her someone who seemed to have a natural understanding of suffering. Though often busy, she had time. Her humanity, laughter and ability to enjoy the simple things of life were infectious.

Boarbank, of course, is more than any one person. Those of us who have good reason to be ever grateful for its care and love, know well enough that it is an entire community that creates an atmosphere. That said, there are key people who give direction and set a tone. Sister Imelda was such a one and we are the better for having known and loved her.   May she rest in peace. 

 

                                                          +Brian M. Noble.


We hope that the following pictures,
either of or taken by Sr Imelda, will capture some of the very many facets of her rich, varied and very joyful approach to life, as well as her own keen eye for the beauty of things. Particular thanks to Toni, Florence, Liz, Paul and Lucy for making this possible.
 

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